The most amazing connections are with parents, grandparents and those who felt they never really got chance to say their own "goodbye".
When your spirit connections come through, there is sometimes unchartered waters for both, this may be yours & their first time. This may be they really loved you and you were their favourite grandchild but they actually have intentions on asking you to be their messenger to another family member. This is where I often see clients come frustrated and yes, even fed up! Let me tell you now, My own Nan in spirit, to whom was my very best friend on earth whilst she was here, rarely communicates with me...gutted! WHY??? she knows me, she know's my personality, she see's me work & only ever steps in at the point of crisis in my family or concern. She was a proper chatter box in life, as story teller, singer, heart of the community & rock in the family....but no...nothing from her!
My point is, when you are sat infront of a medium, just take all the information you can, try and verify it there & then if you can but don't pressure yourself and get anxious that it isn't about your new job or love life & that it is instead regarding your Dad's health and well being. This is probably because your health is great & as for your new job....what about it? we have to sort & figure things out ourselves, spirit are totally aware of life paths, cause & effect, lessons and rewards. They will leave well alone if you are simply going where you are intended. Please be gracious, thankful and respectful of your spirit connections and take their messages to whoever they are for but it will always come through with Love.