When asking myself this question, I must too consider his personality in the physical world as this plays a major part as the personality is a soul trait and journeys with the soul. This is why, when they communicate via a Medium, they are able to convey little quirky ways, silly sayings, habits they had and their attitude is a definite!! If you go to a Medium with the hope of connecting to someone who wasn't particularly a great talker or communicator in life, then expect the same in spirit. If they were shy, then that's how they will come through....if at all?!
My Uncle was a Non believer and not a great talker, so you can see why I was curious, however, he was the kind of man who would say "Jesus, really?!!Ok then!" if something proved him wrong.
When I heard of his passing, I was naturally emotional, remembering the last time we were together and it was a really great time (the Irish know how to gather!!) It was apparent he was very poorly and I was certain at the time, I wouldn't see him again. Not easy to accept. Six months later, he left the physical world to be reunited with his brothers, parents and maybe some friends. A few days after his passing, we went on a planned family holiday, this means spirit are asked to leave me alone unless there is a really strong need to communicate, which they have done! Well I am glad, no-one bothered me that week, except one person..My Uncle! We all raised a glass to him and talked about him, it was then, I felt him around me & just heard his usual brief few words. That was all....and that was all I needed.
Then, on the day of his funeral...in the church..I saw him standing to the side of his Brother as he gave an emotional & naturally comical tribute to his life. He stood in front of his family whilst they listened, he looked completely bewildered, I don't know if he didn't expect such a big turn out or it was all too much as I am sure anyone in this situation would find. He didn't know I could see him, so I just left him to his private thoughts and feelings. This is not the first funeral I have been too where I have seen the spirit of the deceased person in the church, a good few years ago, My aunties sister passed away and had dementia for a few years prior to her passing so my Aunty was there with her pointing out to her who was who! Great eh! Bless them.
You will be missed Uncle Paul, I will always remember the stories, the sing song's and the hugs I forced on you!! Love You..be at peace and watch over us all and keep us safe. May God rest your soul xx