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Regardless of how many medium's you have seen, we all are totally unique in our relationship & connection technique's with the spirit world. We all receive different methods of communication according to the energy in the afterlife.
Before I continue to list the differences from one medium to the next, I am going to give you a small insight to what goes on when you are sat in front of me during a reading. Hold tight!
Ideally, approximately 15 minutes before you are expected at my studio, I start to communicate with my head guide & tell him what I need from him, I start to ask him to help me secure a good, strong & sustained connection with a messenger for my client/s. The selection is never up to me or my guide...it is entirely upto your spirit connections. I must add here, some connections can start an hour before my client is due to arrive & even occasionally the moment I awake that day! Yes...they are in & out all day long...you think you get excited & anxious...so can they! Boy, they can be SO impatient! This is usually the "first up" reading appointments & sometimes they have spend all of MY day trying to chat to me (& I am frantically trying to find something to write on) that when you (the client) turns up....they are done & just expect me to remember everything & repeat it all....not always possible.
So, back to the point: your loved one's or friends in life, had their own personality, agreed? This is a soul trait not a physical trait so it carries on in the afterlife and through every incarnation (hence, Karma...but that is a totally different conversation for another time) so this "personality" is what will come through when they try to connect. If they were a great chatter in life...then they will be the same in spirit, if they were private, shy & not really very open or talkative then don't expect them to suddenly be the opposite just because their physical body has gone.
By the way, If they didn't speak English or believe in the afterlife when they were alive then guess what...these things are physical conditions....again, no longer needed in spirit so they communicate with the medium in a way that he or she can understand oh & they have sort of figured it out that there is an afterlife.
OK, so we have a variety of different personalities to deal with in spirit, at this point, the medium should start to receive flash cards, static words, pictures, letters of the alphabet, sensation in their own body or awareness of certain organs/limbs, songs or the best one....actual dialogue..never guaranteed..but the best when it happens. Your spirit connection isn't that forward in any if these methods of communication...nothing....maybe fragmented words, nothing really to connect to. I am holding their item which is hopefully a photo of them or a personal item (for psychometry), then I start firing questions at them (in my mind) only to see you (the client) sat in front of me with your arms folded tight to your chest, your legs crossed, shoulders tense and totally blocking any possible psychic connection I could establish with you to help anchor your loved one. It is very off putting to sit opposite this energy and maintain my own energy vibrations to the extent that I can meet with spirit energy.
What is your name? How are you related to the person sat in front of me? when was your birthday? what month did you marry? who is there with you? How did you pass away? where were you? what area did you live in? tell me about yourself, share a memory or saying that they will recognise, if that doesn't get a response then it is asking for another connection & a psychic connection to the client sat with me. It is a t this moment, you (the client) can make or break it for yourself. You may start becoming negative, shrugging your shoulders, folding your arms & dismissing any small pieces of evidence I am trying to qualify, this then drops the energy in the studio, heavy vibrations can not link with spirit. Please do not be complaisant when you see a psychic medium, what we do is very complex and sometimes it comes easy & other times no so. This isn't very often but it happens and will happen again. Spirit may not be ready, you may not be ready or open. Try again another time or with a different medium but not everyone is open enough and sensitive to what is needed.
Connections are just amazing and when it clicks into place, it is awesome for both the client and the medium to experience.