Any who's...another story would be how a grieving husband was sat infront of me last year but this was not his first time with me so his wife in spirit had passed on a lot of sentiment and shared some very private memories previously. This time she was ready to give him "what for!" VIA ME! (Oh joy!) Approximately 30 minutes before he arrived at the studio, whilst I was in my kitchen actually, she pushed through my doorman (guide) and started to tell me how angry she is with her husband & why. This is one of the lovely connections I have where actual dialogue works the same as human exchanges in conversation. She is a reactor rater than a provider. (providers simply send images/words etc without reacting to my requests or the clients energy). Oh great I thought...here we go..she had a real bone to pick bless her. As soon as her hubby arrived, I just grabbed him and said HI, you are in for it....she's here & is not happy with you...what have you been up to?! the guilty look said it all... as I repeated the dialogue whilst attempting to calm her down, my client was bewildered and confused but took it on the chin and said he understood her reaction sincerely but was not really sure how to deal with the fact that she did this from the other side of life and he was in trouble with his wife that had passed away...so you think you can get away with it now I am not physically around anymore eh?! Priceless.
Personally, I love the fact that the spirit of his wife felt so comfortable with me as the "medium" between herself & her hubby, that she could roast him so clearly and confidently because she felt secure and sure that I was the right person to do this on her behalf. It does put me in an awkward position and only because I had seen my client previously did I feel I could manage the communication with respect and council to do them both justice. Phew!